{"id":135,"date":"2020-03-10T11:57:10","date_gmt":"2020-03-10T10:57:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/tegpublishing.se\/hemmafru\/?post_type=podcast&#038;p=135"},"modified":"2020-03-10T12:09:08","modified_gmt":"2020-03-10T11:09:08","slug":"avsnitt-20-barn-teorier-och-ideal","status":"publish","type":"podcast","link":"https:\/\/tegpublishing.se\/hemmafru\/podcast\/avsnitt-20-barn-teorier-och-ideal\/","title":{"rendered":"Avsnitt 20: Barn, teorier och ideal"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>I alla tider har det funnits olika s\u00e4tt att f\u00f6rbereda barnen p\u00e5 livets allvar. F\u00f6r bara n\u00e5gon generation sedan ans\u00e5gs det viktigt att barn skulle l\u00e4ra sig att h\u00e5lla tillbaka sina k\u00e4nslor, i varje fall efter en viss \u00e5lder. Idag r\u00e5der ett motsatt ideal: det \u00e4r viktigt att bejaka sina k\u00e4nslor, men kanske skapar det nya problem i form av s\u00e4mre psykisk m\u00e5ende. Normerna har f\u00f6r\u00e4ndrats men det \u00e4r likafullt s\u00e5 att dagens f\u00f6r\u00e4ldrar m\u00e5ste f\u00f6rh\u00e5lla sig &#8211; och g\u00e4rna f\u00f6lja &#8211; tidens r\u00e5dande ideal. Har ni gjort r\u00e4tt med anknytningen? Hur l\u00e4nge ska barnen sova i samma sovrum som f\u00f6r\u00e4ldern? 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